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ENTRY POSTING AT January 24, 2008
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The trap of anger
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Your anger hurts you much more than it affects anyone else. When your energy and awareness are tightly wrapped around anger, you're not much good for anything else.
There are many things beyond your control that can be perfectly legitimate reasons for anger. Yet the amount of time you maintain that anger is completely up to you.
The more quickly you move on, the better off you'll be. When you feel the first sensation of anger, let that be a reminder to let it go.
Anger can be useful in calling your attention to matters that require your response. But anger itself is not an effective response.
Take a slow, deep breath and remind yourself of how much more effective you can be by maintaining a positive, results-oriented approach. Decide, in a cool, calm and thoughtful manner, exactly what response would be the most powerful and valuable, and then make it happen.
Don't let the foolish, thoughtless, destructive actions of others catch you in a trap of anger. Take note of the anger, let it go, put your focus on being your best, and you'll surely emerge as a winner.
-- Ralph Marston
AUTHOR
My name Viking KARWUR and yes, I'm Christian. Jesus Christ is my Savior.
Love visiting Bali, because my two sisters living in Bali (Jimbaran and Legian).
FREELANCE WEB DESIGNER
vikingkarwur.com is Freelance Web Designer / Multimedia Designer / Graphic Designer based in Jakarta & Bali Indonesia - Don't forget to check my portfolio.
BRIEF
I started to write daily blog since june 2002 (old blog archives). I serving my local congregation - GPIB Gloria Bekasi as sunday school teacher since 1993.
I have currently four cute nephews : Timothy Warren, Gregory William, Rebbeca Patricia, Nikita Eunice.
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Comments
Posted by: Rama
January 29, 2008 10:55 AM
penggemar berat oprah ya mas? heheh... u read "the secret"?? its a very good book.